There are some journeys that present themselves to you and you’re not really sure if a certain path is meant for you. You are diplomatic and debate the pros and cons. But something tells you, “Go for it!” Yes, it’s that inner voice, your gut instinct.
In July 2017, I followed my gut instinct and took on part-time lecturing in journalism. From day one, I loved it. Interacting with young minds, sharing my experience and learnings in journalism, gaining insight into how they viewed current political developments… I was in my element. I was inspired too, to start my blog and write what my heart felt like writing. In fact, I wrote some of my best blog pieces and poetry while lecturing. In encouraging my students to write and reflect on the world around them, I found the motivation to do the same.
Driving through the city centre and walking through the busy streets amid Durban’s winter sun en route to campus, I gained fresh perspectives. It was exactly what my soul needed. I began to see life through my students eyes – supporting them in their ambitions and understanding their challenges. They were humble, hardworking, eager to learn and honest about what they did not understand. In teaching them, I became a better version of myself – patient and more agile. During breaks, we’d chat over hot chocolate and share some laughs. I miss those laughs. But lecturing is a journey that never stops giving, even when you stop that role professionally, like I did three years ago.
Personally, it stays with you and lives through the warm relationship you continue to share with your students. I still receive Mother’s Day messages or random messages that say “Hey Mama”. A few months ago, I received this message from a young lady I lectured in 2018,
“Your student is growing. I’m happy to share that I’ve just made my very first big-girl purchase!” The message was accompanied by pictures of her car.
I was overjoyed, and yes, of course, I cried.
She is currently working in the media industry, like many of my students. Some are in other fields and given the situation in South Africa, some are still looking for employment. Like I always told them, wherever they are, I am cheering all of them on, hoping that the impact they have on others is the same impact they created in my life.
Thank you, my dear children, for changing my world.
To My Students, With Love
